Sunday, January 24, 2010

Physical Therapy

Just wanted to check in and let you all know that Dad has had a fairly good week recovering. I drove him around to several appointments on Friday and he even made it out to a "night out" with friends on Friday night. He spent the weekend resting and healing. His shoulder is REALLY sore and he will start physical therapy on it tomorrow morning. I will be in touch again soon, but in the mean time please pray for the final pathology report and our next visit on Feb. 4th with Dr. Holmes.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Back Home!

Dad is back home and resting as of about 2:00 today. He slept well last night and looked 100% better when I saw him this morning as compared to last night. Dr. Holmes came in this morning and took about 15 minutes with him to explain all that he found and what we would do from here. Again, anytime a cancer comes back it is not the news we wanted to hear, but that being said, it is what it is and we are prepared to fight it away again. This particular tumor was very aggressive. Our goal is to keep the cancers in the head and neck and hopefully kill whatever is left with another round of radiation. The doctors will decide that course of action in the next couple of weeks based on the final pathology report. We are praying that he is able to get more radiation in that area. Cancer is so unpredictable and you never can tell from one person to the next how it is going to act. We are praying that this was all we will see. He is supposed to rest until at least Friday (Ha! I've had already had to drive him by the office on the way back in to town!) He will go back to the doctor (hopefully his local GP) to take out the drain left from the surgery on Friday, then we have an appointment in two weeks with Dr. Holmes to remove the staples and check on the healing. HOPEFULLY he will know at that point what our next step is.

Words cannot express how much we have felt your prayers. I personally am amazed at the blanket of peace and calmness that we have during all this. God is definitely with us every moment! Keep praying. Pray for this cancer to be gone! Love, Michelle

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Keep Praying!

We have all just gotten back from Birmingham. Mom is staying in the room with Dad and Stephen and I will head back down first thing in the morning to hopefully bring him home. It has been a long day! However, I am comforted by Joshua 1:9 "Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go." (Thanks Lisa!)

Now, let me see if I can give a little more information than I did in the earlier post. First of all, the good news is that the PET scan showed no further sign of disease. The bad news is that this tumor in his neck was much larger than expected and seemed to be very aggressive. The doctors were disappointed when they saw this knowing that Dad has had both chemo and radiation specifically in this area. Cancer is so random and there are no predictions as to why this came back and will it come back again? This being said, they (both doctors) agreed that from a surgical standpoint the surgery was a success. They got it all out. Dr. Holmes firmly believes that this is all stemming from that original tumor. So, our plan is to determine whether or not he can receive more radiation (let's pray that he can!) and if he can they will order that to start very specifically in this area of the neck AFTER he heals from today's surgery. (about 5 weeks) Dr. Holmes wants this but ultimately it is the radiologist's call. So that is where we are...yes, we found another big tumor..UGH! However, it IS OUT OF THERE and we are going to pray for radiation to kill whatever else if left in there and I KNOW GOD WILL BE GLORIFIED in it all!

Just talked to mom and she said he is still groggy and keeps trying to wake up but is facing a lot of pain in his arm and a bad headache! Dr. Holmes said his arm would be VERY sore this time and put him out for a while. I would be willing to bet that it won't keep him down long!

We need and appreciate all of you prayers. Love to you all!
Michelle

surgery update

Dad is out of surgery and in a room for the night. It has been a long day because the surgery schedule was all backed up and he never got back until nearly noon. The surgery took about two hours. He is still asleep and on meds for the night. We had some disappointing news as the tumor was a lot larger than we expected. It was very aggressive and starting to attack the nerves and blood vessels in his neck. From a surgical standpoint it was successful. They removed all of it that they could see touch and feel. Dr. Holmes has talked to us briefly and will return with more information for us later this afternoon. Please pray for Dad and the rest of the family. I will post more in a bit once we get him settled in. Just wanted to let you all know he was out and he did fine during the surgery.

Monday, January 18, 2010

January Update

For those of you who still check the blog, I know it has been since November since I updated. We had a great Thanksgiving and wonderful Christmas! A week or so before Thanksgiving Dad started having some pain in his neck right around the scar tissue from the original surgery. We decided to watch it and hope that it was scar tissue and/or muscle pain as the scar is right along the neck where he turns his head. After the holidays it was still there and seemed swollen and caused a lot of pain so he decided to call Dr. Holmes. We had an appointment on January 4 already scheduled so he said we could just wait until then and he would look at it. Upon first looking at it, he thought there was a great deal of scar tissue located on the nerve that leads down his neck and shoulder and that could be causing the pain. He also felt a small mass underneath and wanted to do a biopsy. While doing the biopsy he discovered there was a lot of infection in the area which could also have contributed to the swollen area and the pain. He prescribed him a muscle relaxer and an antibiotic while we waited for the biopsy results. One week later the biopsy came back and it wasn't the news we wanted to hear. It appears the cancer was trying to come back again. Thank God for the signs that something isn't right and we get to the doctor to check it out. It was not the news that we wanted to hear, but at least we now know and we can do something about it. Surgery is scheduled for Tuesday, Jan. 19th at St. Vincents. The surgery will be at 11:00 and Dad will stay overnight for observation and pain management. Dad had a PET scan last week so Dr. Holmes would know exactly what he is going in to get. As of tonight (Monday) we have not received a report about the PET scan but hope that it was the small mass that we suspected and nothing else. Hopefully, Dr. Holmes will go over that with us in the morning. Please pray for good news there. Pray that the mass is small and easily removed. Pray for Dr. Holmes and the other doctors and nurses involved in tomorrow's surgery. Pray that the surgery go as planned and for complete healing. We pray that when Dr. Holmes comes out after surgery that he reports that the cancer was self contained and completely removed. We will also pray that Dad feels good really quickly after the procedure. I will post as soon after the surgery as possible. Thank you all!